Well another monthly milestone is upon us. I can’t believe our littlest babe is 7 months.
Ok, moment of grief (that she is closer to one than newborn) has passed and now onto the exciting points of this month.
At seven months,
-you are adjusting to solid foods. You still only tolerate level one baby food (which I’ve determined is impossible to make on my own. How do they get it so smooth?? so, I’ve been buying the jarred stuff until you’re ready to move up). It seems you’ve lost your gag reflex and can eat about half a jar per sitting. You definitely prefer it to be warm or room temp to cold from the fridge
-you have added in another feeding at night, if not two. Just like your sisters, around 6-7 months, it seems you need a feeding or two to get you through the night. I don’t mind too much, as it takes about 10 minutes and you go right back to sleep. What I do mind is somehow you seem to have a knack for calling me the moment I am just about to drift off. Every single time. Doesn’t matter if I go to bed early, later, or what. Just as my mind is turning off and my body is relaxed, you sound the alarm. You also seem to like the 5:00 hour which means I feed you and get myself back to sleep just a few moments before Bea wakes up.
This works okay though, because you sleep until 9 or so and then go back down around noon and wake up about the time we need to pick up big sis from school. So problem, mostly solved.
-you are getting up on your hands and knees and starting to use your legs as if you are trying to get into the position to crawl. I wonder if we’ll see this out of you this month or next. I’M NOT READY. You’re still not very steady sitting up and always prefer to be on your belly to sitting.
-you’ve slowed your growth a little bit and fit well into 9 or 12 month clothes. I posted an IG story video of you in the bathtub and seven people commented on it to say something about your “back rolls”. I think that’s the most comments I’ve ever gotten on a story and funny that they were all saying the same thing. Your rolls are indeed comment worthy and you feel so good to hold. Your thighs, especially, have an extra fold that sticks up and begs to be pinched.
-you only let me rock you to sleep at night and put yourself to sleep during the day. You get tired about 2-3 hours after waking up
-you love your sisters and light up whenever they are in the room
-I still haven’t put you in the church nursery yet but I have a feeling you’ll be ready this month
I feel a little socially constricted by having a baby, especially with the timing of the move. It seems each morning is different with how late she sleeps and then I have to be ready to put her down for a nap just a few hours later. It’s about all I can handle to spend her awake time getting errands done or sometimes going to the gym. Most mornings while she sleeps I am doing “Bea school”, a cardio workout, cleaning the house, or other morning chores, sometimes all of the above.
Add to this, this is my first baby who refuses a bottle. I surely should have started her a lot sooner than 4 months, but of course when I was living by myself with three little ones to manage, it wasn’t a high priority. Her dr suggested starting a sippy cup of breastmilk this month so hopefully that will buy me more time in the evenings to sneak out on some social calls. I don’t mind hibernating for a while, nurturing my little one. I did it with my other two and enjoy this time as it is. But it does feel a little weird to do this in a new city, with no established friendships (and the friends I do see, I’m only able to see them about once a month as explained at length above). I’m trying to live with the tension of being social and nurturing a little one without rushing either.
Either way, so thankful for this little being that God saw fit to add to our family at the PERFECT time. A thrill of hope, the weary world rejoices.