One of my favorite things, MOPS, is one bi-weekly activity that I always look forward to.
So, if you are in the dark like I was, let me explain it to you.
MOPS runs September-May and meets on a weekly or bi-weekly basis (I prefer bi-weekly because it doesn’t feel like too much of a commitment and they are spread out enough that I look forward to each one).
Ours is about a 2.5 hours long. (so basically, MG spends the morning playing, I spend it sitting and talking, then we come home, eat lunch and nap. Perfect).
During that time we open up with a devotional given by a MOPS mentor mom. Each table (I forgot to mention that you are assigned to a table of about 9? other moms for the entire year. This year they placed us according to where we live so almost all of the moms at my table are practically neighbors. Except that I have two real neighbors that attend that aren’t at my table. Hmmm) has a mentor mom. A mom from another generation that helps gives us advice. Mine is really good about checking in with prayer requests. I love her for that.
Next we eat breakfast that is provided by 3 tables each week. You sign up in advance for what you want to bring and they even provide recipes if you’re not much of a cook. (Or you can skate by the whole year by bringing doughnuts and juice.) Either way, there is always tons of delicious eggs, bacon, muffins, fruit, and coffee to go around.
This is followed by the main speaker. So far we have had a Dads/Husbands panel, a lesson on life transitions (because we are always coming up on, working through or coming out of one), and a veerrry interesting speaker tell us about her journey of surrogacy. I probably cry at every one. In my defense, the waterworks haven’t really stopped since I became pregnant about 2.5 years ago, but still, this is moving stuff. Plus, you are in the company of fellow moms. So you don’t have to look up at the ceiling and think about something funny your child did and pretend like you are scratching an eyelash like you do in front of your husband so he doesn’t think you are a hormonal wreck. Not that I’ve done that…:/
Finally we do something crafty and all laugh about how we don’t have a single artistic bone in our body and how we are terrible at crafts. Unless you are a former art teacher and you spend all of your free naptime catching up on Pinterest. That’s always when things get awkward.
Afterwards, we pick up our children. Some who are so bereft that you left her that she runs to you with open arms and will not let you put her down. It is magical. Because she really doesn’t normally do that on a given Friday morning.
Because we meet every other week, on our off weeks we are encouraged to have a playdate with our table. The nice thing is since that almost all of the moms at my table have one kid 2 and under, so playdates work really well. AND since we all live close, it makes getting together very easy.
Can you see why I’m such a big fan? I’d love for you to join me next year, whether it is in spirit in another church/state, or with your physical presence*. Or are you already a MOPS attendee?
*I want to mention that while at MOPS we read the Bible and pray together, you do not have to have any sort of religious background to join. There is a wide range of backgrounds/beliefs in attendance. Also, I am in no way affiliated with the MOPS organization, nor did I receive any compensation to write this. I’m just an avid fan!