Gender neutral names are super hot right now, and are one of the growing current trends in baby names (at least according to Nameberry.com, my favorite online naming source) I like some of those names and I can appreciate the parents who don’t want their daughter (say in her resume) to be discriminated against simply because of her name.
That being said,
Clue #3: we once again chose two very obviously feminine names for our baby’s remaining two names.
Both of these names have a history of nearly 100% femininity and we can’t see either ever making the leap over to the boy’s side (though I never in my wildest dreams ever thought I would see the day that James was given to so many little girls…). We picked very feminine names for our other three girls, and we will continue that trend to our fourth.
Since this is my final round of baby names, I will let you in on a few of my favorites, now crossed off of our list forever. For a while, I did like Evelyn (one of those 100% female names today which actually has a history of being commonly given to males), and also considered Edith (another name shared with males back in the 19th century) Evelyn would have been nicknamed Evy but I didn’t like that it rhymed with “heavy”. Edith I didn’t care for as much as our other girls’ first names, but I did like Edy as a nickname (rhymes with needy). I didn’t like that both of these names shared a first letter with Sib’s given name, though that was something I was willing to overlook if we couldn’t find anything else we were in love with.
Suffice it to say, we scratched both of those when we came up with daughter #4’s name, as we found something that suited us better and met all of our criteria 100%. Two final hints I will leave you with
- both of those nickames I listed above require a pronunciation guide (much like our first and sometimes second daughters’ nicknames). This baby’s nickname pronunciation should be obvious to all who encounter it.
- Though both of her given names will be strongly feminine, one of her names has a common male counterpart (i.e. Stephen/Stephanie)