There’s a new mayor in M town.
Or at least she would like to think so.
Little Miss thinks she’s running the ship around here and we are all to be at her beckoned call.
Sorry, hunny, things haven’t been that way since you were…oh… about six weeks old?
Needless to say, we are working on big words like obedience, come, and no.
And while this little training course has sucked some of the fun out of this month, now that we are nearing its’ end we have seen some very positive changes in MG’s behavior. Less tantrums, more compliance. Less tears of frustrations, more smiles of joy (on both ends). Less throwing toys across the room, more asking for help. Cheers all around!
The biggest barrier seems to be communication. She can’t tell us what she wants, so often conversations dissolve into fits and tears. We can’t explain to her in toddler language why she can’t go in the street, so we have to tell her to stop and expect her to obey. Just because we said so. This is hard stuff, folks.
Plus, we’re at the height of stranger danger. My friendly, happy-go-lucky baby now only wants Mama to do it and no one else may hold me, thank you very much! The pediatrician assured me this was normal and said something along the lines of, “They all cry like this at the 15month and 18month well-babies. It’s just this age.” Phew. Then as we were leaving she dropped this ego-buster on me, “Wow, you’ve got a feisty one there.” Just what every Mama wants to hear after a long day!
Oh my little feisty one. You certainly have a flair for drama! You are mimicking everything we do: throwing paper in the trash (even paper that isn’t trash), clapping your hands along with the contestants on Wheel of Fortune, smiling cheesy smiles back at us, recreating noises that you hear Mama and Daddy make, slapping your hands on the ottoman to the beat of a song, attempting to dress yourself, pointing to every.single.object.on.every.single.page.of.every.single.book, blowing on the hot spoon before you put in your mouth, trying to feed Mama your leftover cheese, passing us the clean utensils from the dishwasher to be put away and more. Each day is a new wonder with you. And despite all of your feistiness, we’ve seen plenty of sugar and spice and everything nice from you too.
So let’s try and channel that drama a bit next month, shall we?
(Just because we’re your parents doesn’t mean we don’t have some learning to do too. So go easy on us.) Otherwise, you may end up as an only child. (this is not a threat)
Love ya bunches and bunches,